If you are a person who has had a relationship(s) in your past life, you may have regrets, misunderstandings, or accidents and wish to have the ability to change what happened the last time you were in that relationship.
With that being said, the only thing you can do is move on because time will never stop for you; it will always keep going, and you have to move forward from this and learn from your mistakes. Hopefully, you will know what to do if a new person or someone you’ve known comes across and asks you unexpectedly, “Will you be my Valentine?”
So what if you are starting another relationship and still do not know what to do since your previous relationship ended the way it did. Here’s what I suggest you do:
1) Be open to more communication between you and your partner because that way you can talk more about your feelings and agreements/disagreements towards each other.
2) Intensive hearing in the present, meaning you are listening but with care and respect, because it will both give you and your partner confidence when having conversations.
3) It is wise to set boundaries because it’s very important that you and your partner will know what is and is not okay in your relationship.
4) Keep an open mind because it sees past your insecurities and having to tell each other that it is OK when agreeing or disagreeing to something.
5) Only strive for healthy arguments which is another important thing to have in a relationship because then it will be less stressful. It will also help you to better understand each other and any issues.
6) Finally, have dignity and self-respect because having to not be ashamed of your partner shows that you are satisfied and happy to indicate that you are in a healthy relationship who affirms understanding and respectful treatment.
These are important things to consider when starting a relationship. If things are one-sided, it may lead to the negative aspects of an unhealthy relationship. And if you need advice, you can always contact The Cardinal’s own “Ask Esperanza” who gives solid advice. You can email her at [email protected].
