Relationships are everywhere. They are based on trust and communication.

To me, a relationship is having someone who you trust with all your secrets, and they do the same in return. This person makes you feel excited to do anything, even if it’s the most boring thing; he/she will somehow make it feel like fun. You might even think about him/her all day, 24/7.

You wonder what he is doing or what he feels, maybe even what he’s thinking. It feels good knowing you have someone with similar interests, and being able to hold long conversations, but no one really talks about the difficult parts of being in a relationship with someone.

It’s not always cupcakes and rainbows. There are gonna be times where there are problems but if anything, it makes the relationship stronger. If you can overcome that then anything is possible. I have been through that and I can say that it is a little frustrating. Bringing up the problem and trying to solve it was the best thing we could have done. You also can not, and I mean CAN.NOT. let someone tell you what to do in your relationship. Advice is fine from time to time but it should only be you and what you want. Getting advice from other people is usually what causes things to fail, and hopefully not intentionally.

We are still learning how to work things out. I myself still don’t know exactly how to have the “perfect” relationship but I’ve realized there is no such thing but there will always be ways to make it a little better from the beginning till the end.

Relationships are very important to me not just as having a significant other but also friendships and family relationships. Those are also so important because I know I will always have them and they will always have me.